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Saturday, February 19, 2011

February 15, 2011 - Mapping Cordona

I was dreading this day. As part of the Dive Master course you have to produce a map of a dive site. I’m outrageous with directions. I’m terrible with maps. I can hardly follow one, let alone create it! And the compass! I don’t like compasses. I have to relearn how to use it every time I need it for some diving course. It’s bad. Maybe this exercise will finally make me remember the “trick” once and for all.

We had to do mapping in buddy teams. I was paired up with Kelly, a girl from Connecticut who is here for the DM training. We took the truck to La Caleta, a little harbor where the boats “live”. I have a special emotional connection to La Caleta. Good memories. It was the starting point of my 100th dive. Bad memories. This place will always remind me of how painfully cold it was for me to dive last year. Every time the weather was not that good (the wind is strong but not bad enough for the port to be closed), we started dives from La Caleta. The strong wind and no sun usually means freezing during the surface interval. I don’t know how many second dives I missed last year because I was too cold to get back in the water. Of course, now that I have my power semi-dry 8-mm suit, it’s not a problem at all. Today, we started from here not because of the bad weather (thank God), but because the dive site we’re mapping – Cordona – is located between San Francisco and Punta Tunich, very close to La Caleta.

The best way to make a map is to snorkel above the reef first to get its general contour and then do one or two dives to record the depths, distances and marine life in the area. It’s good to do it in pairs because then one person can focus on depths while the other does distances. Both people must create their own map to record numbers on and then you compare the notes, which ideally should be similar, and transfer the finalized version onto paper.

By now I’m kind of used to the fact that everything I’m scared of turns out to be fun and not scary at all. Mapping was no exception. It is quite a task to be able to trace all the curves and nooks of the site as you get carried by a pretty strong current. Especially, when all of a sudden your slate breaks into two and the whole east side of the map slowly starts sinking deeper and deeper, and there’s absolutely nothing you can do about it because your “power” semi-dry suit is so buoyant that it doesn’t even allow you to immerse your head completely underwater, let alone free dive for the escaping piece of paper. Helplessly, I twitched my body every which way in an attempt to go down, all in vain. But this is when another advantage of mapping in buddy teams comes into play. Kelly, who – thank God – was wearing just a regular wetsuit, retrieved the east side for me in a second.

You have only one chance to get the shape right – the surface current is pretty strong and there’s no way you can stop, or even slow down, to perfect your work in progress. Impossible is nothing though (I love this slogan!), and you quickly learn to accept that your map will be schematic at best and move on.

I was surprised to realize how different the reef looks from the bottom compared to the bird’s eye view. I’m not very good with spatial thinking, and I’m glad I got the snorkeling overview first, otherwise I would never be able to figure out the real shapes. Since I’ll have to guide soon, I wish I could get a snorkeling “tour” of every major dive site of Cozumel, but who are we kidding, it will never happen…

The original plan was for Kelly and I to be on the opposite sides of the reef taking depths and whenever we couldn’t see each other anymore we should come up a bit and measure the distance between us. Well, our brilliant plan didn’t work. We quickly realized that although the corals looked pretty short from the top, it was actually impossible to see the other side for the most part. So Kelly and I revised the plan and continued together. I was struggling with the depth finder that I borrowed from a friend in the hope that it would help us measure distances more efficiently. In theory, it does sound easier than keeping a count of your kick cycles or crawling on the bottom of the sea with your arms constantly stretched. In practice, it is not that simple. The problem is that the device is super sensitive and doubles as a fish finder, so every time I pointed it toward a boulder and a random fish passed by, I would get the distance to the fish and not the boulder. Another annoying thing about it is that for some reason it insists on taking the temperature on every second click. Seriously, why do I need so many temperature readings? So in the end, I had to take several readings for each distance to make sure it was correct. Still better than arm lengths and kick cycles though. Kelly was obsessed with taking depths. Her computer was set in meters for some reason and when I saw a series of “10.5 10.6 10.4 9.9” clustered around a boulder, it made me laugh – my depth records read, “30 feet” on the west side of my broken slate and “18 feet” on the east side. I’m exaggerating, of course, but not by much.

In the afternoon, we got together to finalize our map. I was thrilled to learn that apparently Kelly went to an art school for years. We went all in. Empowered by the fact that our maps looked very similar (we both were scared of this exercise and had no faith that we could possibly do a decent job), excitedly we compared depths, shapes and notes. Almost everything was identical, and what was not, served as a good complement to the other map. It was simply perfect. And we drew a simply perfect map. We even used colored pencils. Our map was the best. Really.

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February 14, 2011 – Did you know that…

  • …there are many days honoring martyrs named Valentine in the Church Calendar and nobody is 100% sure which one exactly this holiday is celebrated after, as there are at least two Valentines who were executed on February 14th. What everybody is sure about, however, that this holiday originally had nothing to do with the romantic love.
© Tatyana Molchanova

  • …the love part of this holiday crept in sometime in the middle ages when everything seemed to somehow revolve around the Romantic Love and is based on an allegedly completely unfounded legend that goes something like this. The emperor Claudius II ordered young men to stay single. Supposedly, he did this to grow his army, believing that married men didn't make for good soldiers (it makes sense, I guess). The priest Valentine, however, secretly performed marriage ceremonies for young men. When Claudius found out about this, he had Valentine arrested and thrown in jail.

    © Tatyana Gindin


  • …the "Roses are red" poem can be traced as far back as 1590, to Edmund Spenser's epic"The Faerie Queene":
    She bath'd with roses red, and violets blew,
    And all the sweetest flowers, that in the forest grew.

© Elmira Shirinova

  • …in Mexico Valentine's Day is called Dia del Amor y de la Amistad (Day of Love and Friendship). It is similar to the United States' version, but it is also common to see people do "acts of appreciation" for their friends.

© Marina Barskaya

  • …and last but not least, apparently quite a lot of Americans celebrate something called SAD– are you ready? – Singles Awareness Day (seriously???). This "holiday" is obviously a protest against Valentine's Day and usually takes place on February 13th or February 15th. It's customary to wear green on that day, because green is considered to be the "opposite" of red.

© Sue Chuang


In Russia we tend to adopt all the world's holidays. We really don't care about the philosophy behind the celebration: as long as there's a chance to party with some kind of premise to toast to, we just go for it. So…

HAPPY V-DAY EVERYONE!


P.S. What a great excuse to share all the 218 heart pictures I have collected so far, too!:)

February 13, 2011 – What’s a few pounds!

Do I look helpless? Do I look fragile? Do I look like need to be taken care of? I wonder… There must be something about me that makes people feel that they just have to help me. It is most apparent during traveling: without my involvement in the process, my suitcases get carried over the stairs, my carry-on gets lifted onto the overhead compartment, my overweight luggage gets onto the belt without any extra fee charged. Pheromones again? Whatever it is, I hope I will never lose it! It makes my life so much easier.

During the check-in at La Guardia airport, they made the guy right in front of me take 2 extra pounds out of his suitcase (the current luggage limit is 50 lbs). When I placed my gigantic bag on the scale, it showed 57 lbs. I started on the bag's zipper, ready to rearrange things, but the flight attendant smiled at me, "What's a few pounds! Don't worry about it!" The attendant was a lady. So it has nothing to do with the sexual attraction (well, I cannot be 100% sure, of courseJ).

My carry-on was definitely bigger than allowed and much-much heavier – 47 lbs (by the way, neither of my two overweight suitcases contained any of my things, they were stuffed with wet-suits, fins and other diving paraphernalia that dive masters on the island requested me to bring from NYC). I was trying to stroll very casually to the gate pretending that the bag was light as a feather. In the front of my line a guy was arguing with a flight attendant – his carry-on didn't pass the requirements and the flight attendant insisted on making him check in his bag. The guy's argument was valid – every other person in line had a similar bag (with new luggage limitations everybody tries to pack as much as they possibly can into their carry-on). I tried to "block" my obviously oversized suitcase with my body and look non-chalant at the same time. The flight attendant was relentless. The guy continued to argue. The line was moving. Finally, it was my turn. I made sure that the bag was on the opposite side of the flight attendant and smiled nicely as I handed my boarding pass over to him. No questions asked, I was allowed to board. The poor guy stood dumbfounded, suddenly he realized there was no point in continuing the argument.

And yes, on the plane, my 47-pound carry-on was lifted (as if it were light as a feather) but a body-builder type whose seat was across the aisle from me. What luck!

I love my pheromones. Is there any risk that you may run out of them one day? I hope not!

Wednesday, February 16, 2011

February 11-13, 2011 – The usual

What is it about NYC that makes me have awful migraines? For three days straight I was bed-bound by a terrible pain. What the (*^%(*^%*&^! Thank God I was able to take the flight back to Cozumel. The second I stepped my foot on the island, the headache went away as if I never had it. Go figure…

February 10, 2011 - Yama



Yama has the best sushi in the world. Well, at least the rolls. The best one is Special #7 - scallop roll with spicy mayonnaise. Yum!


Every time I'm in this restaurant I get drunk... purely on food. It's a must if you are in New York!




February 8-9, 2011 - Boston

his is the first time I take a bus to Boston. I will never take a train again. Only 13 bucks get you the same 4 hours of travel time, so why would I ever pay more? Apparently, Megabus is an excellent choice. The only tiny hiccup is that they claim they have wi-fi on board, but it's not really true. I mean, it's hit or miss. It was a miss on my roundtrip. But I don't care, it was nice to just stare out of the window and think random thoughts.

In Boston I did nothing but hang out with Jennifer on the couch and chat. It was wonderful. Jennifer and Kevin have this gift to make any apartment (and I've been to three that they have lived in over the past 12 years) so cozy that you don't ever want to go out. Even their teenage kids like to spend time at home. This is really something.

When I finally have a family, I want it to be like Jennifer's… I just wrote several paragraphs trying to describe what's so good about them, but it turns out I cannot. So I'm going to just stick to my original statement. When I have a family, I want it to be like Jennifer's.




Sunday, February 13, 2011

February 7th, 2011 – Is it or is it not in the eye of the beholder?


"It is only shallow people who do not judge by appearances.
The true mystery of the world is the visible, not the invisible".
Oscar Wilde.


I cut my hair. It wasn't just a trim, it was a pretty dramatic cut. I went from long hair to short hair in less than 15 minutes. Why do I explain it in such detail? So that my astonishment is clear. NOT ONE of my guy friends noticed the change! Regardless, I love it. I loved my long hair too, but it's been too long (pun intended, insert the victorious percussion sound here).

This made me think. I know from experience that a lot of things change after you get to know a person. If you like them, you stop noticing their "ugly" traits and start attributing various sorts of beauty to them instead, all of a sudden, they become more attractive. If you don't like them, the opposite process occurs, and whatever initial appeal may have existed quickly evaporates. Speaking of attractiveness, it turns out that you can… measure it. My day is full of surprises.

The attempts at scientific research of physical attractiveness started in mid-1960s. Edward Lee Thorndike (American psychologist and educator) asserts, "If something exists, it exists in some amount; if it exists in some amount, it can be measured." Unexpected. There's a whole research methodology that is dedicated to physical attractiveness. It's called the "Truth of Consensus". Gestalt perspectives (professing that the whole is greater than the sum of the parts) implemented through this truth of consensus method have, apparently, proven to be successful in the research of the physical attractiveness phenomenon. Starting from here, everything is disappointingly expected, although still pretty interesting:

  • Looks are ranked as significantly more seductive than money, power and fame.
  • Healthy and young appearance is considered the epitome of attractiveness.
  • Face seems to be more important than the body components.
  • Curiously, the order of the five most important attractiveness determinants varies depending on the evaluation perspective (according to some research done in the 70s-80s):
    • For females judged by self, the order is:
      • Weight
      • Face
      • Height
      • Legs
      • Extremities
    • Females judged by females:
      • Weight
      • Face
      • Complexion
      • Legs / Height
      • Hands
    • Females judged by men:
      • Weight
      • Face
      • Height
      • Hands
      • Figure
    • For males judged by self:
      • Face
      • Legs
      • Weight
      • Torso
      • Voice / Hair
    • Males judged by males:
      • Face
      • Weight
      • Legs
      • Shoulders / Arms
      • Complexion / Hands
    • Males judged by females:
      • Face
      • Weight
      • Hair
      • Body / Profile
      • Shoulders / Arms
  • And last but not least, familiarity – the research shows – significantly affects physical attractiveness…

Which brings me to my original issue. Familiarity expectedly skews your opinion about your friend's looks, but I had absolutely no idea that you may NOT notice the appearance! And what that really means is you see the person with your mind's eye, not with your physical two eyes. It could be true just about appearances, but what if it also applies to the character? What if we see our friends the way we imagine them and not the way they really are?

P.S. If you want to dig into this fascinating research, follow this link.